11.10.2023Friday, November 10, 2023

The celebrity books I always suggest to friends

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    Before Britney’s book came out; I had previously read quite a few “celebrity books.” It can be challenging finding celebrity books that seemed interesting or shared things I had not already heard in the news. By the way; I loved her book and thought it was so not boring so of course I will suggest Britney’s book first. 

    Britney goes into more detail on her career, relationships with her family, exes, and that awful conservatorship. I finished most of it in one day! 

    If you’re not into reading a physical book; I found these fun as audiobooks in the car or at the gym. 

    Audiobooks for me can be great motivation to get extra walking time on a treadmill or when I am doing chores. Sometimes with tasks we do not enjoy…a little fun can help! I do not always want to hear about what is going on constantly the local and world news; I get plenty of that already. 

A good celebrity book is just what I need at times. Of course the Bible is the best book and I recommend people always starting and ending their day reading the Bible

 Celebrity book reviews


    One that I found interesting would be Travis Barkers’ book. I was curious to learn more about his airplane crashing survival story. The book turned out far more interesting than I expected. It’s amazing how far he has come from addiction to being successful, happily married and a good dad! 

    Not sure if you are a Bravo TV fan such as myself; but LaLa has my favorite book out of the Bravo stars so far. I have not read all of their books but I would say quite a bit. LaLa is from Vanderpump Rules although she does various cool things like a podcast and makeup line. 

    In the book; LaLa talks about dealing with loss of a parent, admitting she had a problem with alcohol, and more. It was a fun read for sure to me. 

Dating & Relationships

    If you’re single; I recommend this book. Not only have I read it many times; I never had those bad friendships and relationships with men again. It’s not for everyone but it helped me I felt with some extra confidence. 

    If you are going through a divorce; a good read would be Brandi Glanville’s first book. It was much better than many celebrity books I’ve read with the juicy details of her own divorce and interesting advice that could be helpful for a lot of women dealing with betrayal. By the way; I heard her and Eddie’s wife are okay now. Good for Brandi. 

    Jessica Simpson has a great book totally worth the read for me. When I read it I was expecting to hear about her fashion business but loved the relationship stories even more. 

   As a teen; I sort of had a “crush” on her ex Nick Lachey so finally learning about what happened more in their marriage was low-key exciting to me. Especially if you watched their reality show they had like me. 

    By the way; the fact she got sober is so awesome! I bet it is not easy for many people. Her fashion line is a big part of my wardrobe. The handbags and shoes are always my favorite. Since her fashion line is affordable I tend to pick up pieces often.

    Thanks for checking out my quick reviews of celebrity books I have read lately and always still recommend to friends of mine. 

     Have books you no longer read? Try seeing if they sell on platforms such as this. You may want to try selling them in bundles/lots of a few. 


11.08.2023Wednesday, November 08, 2023

Fabulous FREE shipping finds

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First off; who doesn’t enjoy FREE shipping? It helps sometimes I would say. Don’t forget to check out this closet clean-out as it often has quite a bit of free shipping on clothing, accessories, shoes, handbags, and more. 

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11.03.2023Friday, November 03, 2023

Review: The Woman in Me

Britney Spears | The Woman in Me | BOOK REVIEW



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I felt this book was such a great read and deserves five stars! I learned a lot more about Britney Spears and enjoyed hearing quite a bit of celebrity gossip. Britney is so brave and strong to have dealt with such lies, abuse, and torment. I could not have coped well I would imagine. She must be so tough! When reading it; it literally seemed like such abuse. It was! 

How does a woman be so controlled she cannot have access to more of her money, who she wants to date, and where she wants to go? How sad she must have been. I feel so awful for her but am glad she is out of control from her father mainly. 

Hearing about her former boyfriend Justin Timberlake cheating on her and wanting the abortion...I am not surprised! Just him making the music videos with Britney look-a-likes was mean enough. It was basically making people believe she was the total bad-girl in the situation. Britney did not really speak up much for herself and the world was lead to believe Justin was just so screwed over and he was the victim. 

If all of this is true; which in my opinion I believe Britney...this is so heartbreaking. A lot of men and women want the benefit of fun when it comes to certain actions...they just do not want the consequences. Funny how that works! I think it takes two to make certain choices at times but women are often influenced deeply by those they love or date. Especially being young and naive! Imagine doing all that and he still ends up doing interviews about you.

Losing respect for Justin came for me when he did a radio interview but mentioned his intimate history with Britney. I remember hearing the radio interview and feeling so disgusted. I was so young when I heard it and knew no good man should do that. It just is not right.

When I got to the parts about her mother and little sister; I was the most surprised. When I was a little girl; I remember the first time I ever saw Britney on my television screen. It was the "...Baby one more time" video and I was in awe. She looked beautiful, fit, and like a confident girl dancing in the music video. I instantly became a HUGE fan. 

Throughout my child and teen years some children at the schools I would attend would honestly make fun of me for liking Britney Spears so much. She seemed so genuine and talented to me; so I had zero regrets. That sort of bullying did not always get to me but now I like Britney even more. 

Honestly, many loving or good mothers would be rebellious, angry, or plain out of control if they lost access to their funds, children, and literally everything else. The thought of just losing custody of children I birthed would seem like the end of the world to me! I am so glad she never lost her faith because I bet many people would have not been able to cope. 

Britney Spears does mention praying and God in the book. That meant a lot to me for her mentioning just how little faith she used to have and that she did not believe in God anymore after going through so much heartache and abuse. Thank goodness she did not give up on herself. Sometimes even the biggest stars can feel alone and miserable; this book was eye opening for me. 

I am so glad Britney began to pray more and trust God. I really admire her for going through so much sadness to finally be living a more free life now and getting closer to God. 

4.13.2023Thursday, April 13, 2023

Re-selling 101: Work at home mom ideas

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Do you have items in your home you no longer use or clothing you have not worn in quite some time? Re-selling is a great way to make money from the comfort of your own home. Some moms are earning full-time income re-selling from home. If you prefer to have a company do the work all for you instead of you posting and selling it on your own; try FlypthredUP or Swap.

If re-selling virtually isn’t your thing; try joining your local re-selling communities such as with VarageSale. I prefer re-selling online as I feel it’s more convenient for me personally. You could even do a mix of both.



Consigning online is a hobby for me and I find I earn more profit doing it on my own. Now I use a mix of a few companies with my re-selling business I am working on. I took a few years off then quickly realized there was not many other businesses you can start for so low; or nothing at all for many people. 


Working from home is something I enjoy. Saving money on transportation costs, wear and tear on my vehicle, and childcare is a major bonus. Rush-hour traffic, long car pool lines, and all that wasn't my thing. I have a lot of help but always just wanted to homeschool and be a stay at home mom. Re-selling is also good for moms who work outside the home since it can be flexible. 

 Having the flexibility to set my own hours and be my own boss is a great fit for me. The harder I work; the more I earn. It came down to consistency and finding great deals. I did make some mistakes in the beginning but at least I never lost a lot of money or bought things I could not eventually re-sell compared to other business ideas I tried that costed me thousands on inventories or business "kits."


I enjoy giving life to new items like children's gear, handbags, clothing; or finding new homes for cute interior decor items. Shopping for cool stuff; then re-selling it later could be in the future for you if you decide selling some things you already have is fun or worthwhile for you. 


Give it a try but it is NOT easy for most. I find it more of a numbers game; the more I post weekly...the more I earn.  If you want ten sales daily; post at least ten items daily. Your listings go up, you get more experience, and you learn what sells the best.

 I like to re-sell items like shoes, clothes, and toys my child has outgrown...they get so big so even paying full-price for baby and toddler items isn't something I enjoy. That is another reason I love spots like Kidizen or Once Upon A Child. I can re-sell items. 

Once Upon A Child is more of a cash upfront spot. You bring in gently-used brands they accept and they will offer you cash on the spot or a trade offer. You may have a location near you. There are mixed reviews from moms I chat with about Once Upon A Child. They can be picky but I understand; they get so many things so just cannot accept everything. 

Clothes Mentor is a buy, sell, trade spot for women's clothing too. I still feel as if I make way more re-selling on my own but some people like my mom are shorter on time and prefer to use this method when its time to clean her closet out. Or she gives her items to me to sell :) 

Not able to find things to sell on your own? Ask friends and family if they have garage-sale leftovers or items you can have for your new reselling small-business or hobby. I started off doing this for fun in order to get rid of items I hadn't worn in a year or more. Now I am able to have extra money for gas and groceries. 

When it comes to selling anything; I make sure it is gently-used and in good condition. This will save you time and it wasn't profitable for me trying to sell items no one would want...such as things with a hole or fading on it. Perhaps a handbag with a tiny mark wouldn't be a big deal; but post detailed descriptions with the flaw and include an image. 


I just like to use my own best judgment. I would not waste time re-selling something with a hole or visible flaws. A customer may complain or it just would probably sit a long time. Not saying people do not buy items with defects; it just varies on what you're selling I suppose. A luxury pair of shoes may still sell if a scuff mark is on the bottom where no one will see. I do make sure my items are clean and as wrinkle-free as possible these days. 

I like Kidizen for children's re-selling. Clothing moms wear; including maternity can be re-sold there. It is a great spot to shop also if you are a parent or grandparent who loves shopping deals. I love buying and selling clothing bundles; they are great for play clothing or back-to-school time. 


EBay, Mercari, and Poshmark tend to be what a lot of re-sellers who sell full-time use. I think most people will find the most luck with EBay due to its huge audience and popularity of course. Poshmark is my favorite because it seems super community-based and they have an optional yearly event called PoshFest with training. 

The reason I recommend Poshmark and find it my favorite is their shipping. I can get free priority flat rate boxes to ship my orders. This saves me so much money on postage, tape, and more while running a re-selling side-business. That stuff adds up so I do not get burnt out using Poshmark even if my sales aren't as high as if I posted the same stuff on other platforms. With other platforms I am paying for bubble wrap, poly mailers, and a shipping scale came in handy for more accurate shipping pricing. 

A wonderful spot for selling wedding gowns would be StillWhite. Be sure to let your friends getting married know about this site; a bride-to-be can save hundreds or maybe thousands of dollars purchasing a consigned gown. Who knows? A lady may also want to consign her dress after the wedding day. Queenly has attire for brides, wedding guests, and those parties like a bachelorette celebration. Why not find something for a good deal?

A great spot for re-selling prom dresses, cocktail dresses, semi-formal wear, pageant wear, and even nice jumpsuits would be Queenly.

Why would people buy the stuff you may want to sell? Many are looking for good deals or unique items. Some people may even live in areas without much shopping options so love consignment or boutique-style shopping online.

When you do start re-selling try to take your images in good lighting or open a window next to you during the day time to take advantage of natural lighting. Now I include measurements on most of my clothing listings but it is not something I did at first. When you get an order; ship promptly and try to get great reviews. It helps with future sales when users see nice reviews. I include a thank-you card with my orders and wrap them in white tissue paper. 


I also enjoy fashion blogging as a supplemental income. If re-selling is just not your thing but you love fashion or writing; look into it HERE. Basically fashion bloggers can post fashion and accessories they love or brands they want to promote. Some gain sponsorships or use strictly affiliate marketing with fashion brands.


You do not have to use blogging or social media to promote your listings but I find it helps if you are doing this more long-term. Many platforms allow you to share listings on social media platforms; so why not? 


You probably wonder where re-sellers get items to sell once they run out of items of their own. Well; you can budget and re-invest in your business by finding deal days at second-hand shops. You may want to try garage sales or outlet bins thrift shops have. Everyone has different places in their area...or not much of a variety. If you do not have thrift shops with low deals (I try getting items around $1 a piece if you're newer) then you may have to drive to other cities.


A lot of thrift shops near me aren't so cheap so I only get items I think I could profit over $10 on. Many choose items that profit them at least $20-$30. I just get items I like and feel like I could sell fast. Sometimes I am shocked at what sells and what takes quite awhile to do on. 


Some re-selling platforms do allow you to make offers and bundling-style deals on them so just take time to play around, see what others are posting, and take images in clean areas when you begin.


 Each company has their own rules, policies, and items they accept. I suggest not just using one; and trying two or three to post on. Start with posting 3 items a day then adding more. If you want to do this full-time; try posting 20-30 items daily. 

To help prevent re-seller burn-out; do not purchase a lot of items if you already have tons you need to get photographed and listed. Just because you think it will sell; it may not for awhile so do not go overboard with shopping for your re-selling business. 

When it comes to my thrifting technique; I tend to wait until I find those special deals like thrift shops with half-off days. I think brands like Victoria's Secret or formal wear sells best for me. I cannot usually find those items under $1 but I do tend to make more profit selling more popular brands. 

Just because something is mall-store brands does not mean it will not sell either. For awhile I was selling a lot of those styles. Sure the profit was lower than selling designer bags but it was all I could find at the time and in my budget. You'll learn what works for you and what sells best for you overtime if you pay attention.


If you come across vintage items, band concert merch,  or cool graphic tees you may want to try spots like DePop. 

Another thing I did once I started re-selling a lot more was join a fitness center, make sure I got outside plenty, started listening to thrifting podcasts, and learned more time management skills.

 It does not have to be overwhelming if you perhaps choose to list or source for new items Monday through Friday from noon to five versus every single day without breaks. That is hard for me but I am doing so much better. I do not feel as bad anymore when I take an off day; but sometimes when you find something so cute; you get excited to post it! :)

If you are a mom and later down the road start earning enough extra income; for a sitter to help out a few hours a week while you thrift; it could be helpful. This is not necessary but just an idea if you just happen to grow a larger re-selling business and it would help you out some. Especially for single parents or to do something nice for yourself if you need to go to a salon or make a post office run.

I do not think you even need a car to ship on Poshmark since you can set up those services where you get shipping boxes sent to you and your deliveries picked up. Another reason I always recommend Poshmark. 

Some re-sellers like to brand their online shops with cute color schemes for example. Or perhaps a logo for their seller profiles but I would not worry so much about that if you are new to this or just trying it out. 

A beginner re-seller should possibly focus on listing and learning what sells well for them. If you spend too much time "training," and creating this perfect space; you are wasting time on not really beginning or making the money you could be by listing. 


Re-selling as a hobby, part, or full-time may not be for everyone and I totally understand. My ideas may not work for the next but this is my own personal experience so far. I genuinely love fashion and have tried a lot of other work at home ideas. I find re-selling more fun and overall my cup of tea. 


Fashion re-selling is not easy. Many people choose to sell things that are not clothing-related such as electronics or only coffee mugs. I'd think with any shop or boutique; there are slower sales weeks at times and you can not make everyone happy. 

All I can do is my very best and provide amazing customer service for my customers who shop from my online pre-loved shops. No business or job is perfect but I enjoy shopping; and I get to profit a bit from it. My goal is to make full-time income although I just restarted after taking years off thinking I would enjoy a regular job better. Fashion just seems to be my passion I learned after time.


If you prefer other things to do while you re-sell; I have heard of moms grocery shopping for families, baby equipment rentalsteaching virtually, or baby-sitting occasionally. Since I aim to be a full-time reseller I stick to mainly Poshmark so I can avoid traffic more and spend more time at time. It seems to be easy if you are already busy with other tasks like other business ventures, children, school, or homeschooling for example. 

When it comes to getting paid; each platform varies. If you want to keep your money from re-selling in one little account try Chime or eventually open your own business banking account. It is a good idea to keep track of your monthly expenses or print out statements if you have them such as monthly reports from Poshmark. 


Happy Re-selling!



EBay


Depop.


Queenly


Curtsy App


Fashionphile


Wedding Gowns


Current Boutique


Children's gear, toys, and clothing


 
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3.27.2023Monday, March 27, 2023

3 apps to find experienced baby-sitters and nannies

Could your family benefit from a reliable and trustworthy baby-sitter or nanny? Wouldn't it be so nice to find someone you can trust in order for you do to more things such as self-care, travel, or your career goals this year?

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Here are my top pick, second, and third recommendations for finding experienced baby-sitters in your area. Having baby-sitters you know in the area make occasional date nights, working from home, or relaxation more possible. It is nice for Summer months when some children are out of school or to just get some grocery shopping or housework done interrupted. 


I wanted to share the companies I use and love for baby-sitting and nanny searches. When you spot a baby-sitter who seems like a good it; I have some suggestions. It is good to read their profiles well, schedule a phone call, then meet in a public and busier spot. I think it is great to have a couple baby-sitters that you interview and meet in case your main or current sitter moves one day, is busy or needs a free day in the future. 


All I have suggested I have used and felt that were great; just in their own way. The first choice of mine is because I think they tend to have less fees it seems than some services and more perks. The second is probably the most popular, and my third favorite still has cool options, and an easy-to-use app.

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3.24.2023Friday, March 24, 2023

Easter Everything (Shopping Wise)

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I told myself I would not wait until the last minute...again...like I did last year; to buy an Easter basket. Instead I am going to make my own using supplies, candy, and cute items from the Dollar Tree. 


Your family probably has traditions such as going to a church service or brunch for Easter. If you are cooking at home or bringing a dish to share; try these Easter recipes





3.23.2023Thursday, March 23, 2023

Buy & Sell Gently Used Children's Clothing

Babies and children outgrow their clothing so fast! Check out this awesome website and app for buying and selling children's clothing. You may even want to earn some extra cash from home re-selling gently used clothing your children outgrew. Learn more!


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1.18.2023Wednesday, January 18, 2023

Make mom friends for play dates, moms night out events, coffee meet ups, and advice

 


Have you been interested in meeting other moms in your area? How about joining online forums for moms to share advice and helpful resources? Join this FREE APP just for that. You can even start or join your own mom group on a topic you love such as cooking, fitness, reading, or homeschooling. 


Get started today; it’s free to join and has been so fun for me. I joined to meet other moms with children who could use playdates or field trips too. Since then I have met plenty of nice moms in my area to chat with or meet up from time to time for brunch or a moms night out dinner.